May 10, 2025

Today I’m sharing a few ideas for making the mother(s) in your life feel celebrated like the queens they are. Let’s face it: moms make the world go around. No matter how helpful our partners are (and some dads truly are superheroes), I don’t think anyone would argue the fact that mothers are the engine behind the operation. They know what everyone needs and when they need it. They juggle family dynamics and write lists and research nutrition and cleaning supplies and understand who their children are at the deepest level. Also, moms share food, use shirts to wipe snotty noses, and lay awake at night praying for guidance, wisdom, and safety over her family as they begin the whole thing over the next morning. Moms give of theirselves wholly, without a second thought, day in and day out. 

So, they we deserve a nice little Mother’s Day weekend. Husbands, if you’re reading this, take notes.

HISTORY OF MOTHERS DAY:

I decided to look up the history of Mother’s Day and boy howdy am I glad I did. It literally was never intended to be celebrated the way that it currently is. The very first sentence on Wikipedia says, “Mother’s Day is a celebration honoring the mother of the family, as well as motherhood, maternal bonds, and the influence of mothers in society.” I feel like that sentence right there proves my point and I don’t really need to go any further but you know me and I know I want to hear more of the history of Mother’s Day. In the United States, Mother’s Day was initiated by Julia Ward Howe and Anna Jarvis. Julia was a peace activist and suffragette. Anna was also a peace activist. Julia first made her Mother’s Day proclamation in 1870, while Anna started her campaign for Mother’s Day in 1905 when her mother died. Julia Ward Howe urged the creation of Mother’s Day to celebrate peace and to promote “amicable settlement of international questions, the great and general interests of peace”. Anna wanted to honor this and argued that a mother is “the person who has done more for you than anyone in the world”. While the proposal was originally rejected in 1908 by 1911 all states were celebrating Mother’s Day. It was in 1914 that Woodrow Wilson signed the proclamation making Mother’s Day the second Sunday in May. It didn’t take long for Anna to regret founding Mother’s Day. By the early 1920’s Mother’s Day had already started to become commercialized, with Hallmark selling Mother’s Day cards, with the candy and flower industries following suit. Anna eventually started protesting Mother’s Day. While Mother’s Day was a success in the United States other countries were concerned with the narrow definition of Mother’s Day focusing on biological definition. Constance Adelaide Smith advocated for a Mothering Day instead. 



Way to Honor Your Mothers Memory:

Mother’s Day is a time to celebrate the love, sacrifice, and warmth that mothers bring into our lives. But for those who have lost their mothers, this day can be filled with deep sorrow and longing. If you’re grieving this Mother’s Day, know that your feelings are valid, and you are not alone.

1. Create a Memorial Tribute

Light a candle, display her favorite flowers, or set up a small memorial space with photos and keepsakes. Writing a letter to her or sharing stories with loved ones can also bring comfort.

2. Visit Her Resting Place

Spending time at her gravesite or a place that was special to her can be a peaceful way to feel connected. Bring flowers, a handwritten note, or simply sit in quiet reflection.

3. Continue Her Traditions

Did your mother have a favorite recipe, hobby, or charity she supported? Honoring her legacy by baking her signature dish, donating in her name, or engaging in her passions keeps her spirit alive.