May 26, 2025

With Memorial Day just around the corner, most do not know when and where it started or what it means to most people.

Memorial Day often marks the unofficial start of summer. It’s a three-day weekend—perfect for road trips, backyard barbecues, and time outdoors. In many places, it’s the first real taste of warm weather, a chance to gather with family and friends, clean off the grill, and break out the frisbee.

But before diving into the celebration of summer, it’s important to pause and remember why we have this holiday in the first place.

Memorial Day began asDecoration Day, a tradition that took root after the Civil War—a war that ended in the spring of 1865 and claimed over 600,000 American lives, more than any other conflict in U.S. history. Communities across the country began setting aside a day to decorate the graves of fallen soldiers with flowers and flags—a simple yet powerful gesture to honor their ultimate sacrifice.

By the late 1800s, Decoration Day had become an official holiday. After World War I, the focus of the day expanded to honor all American military personnel who died in any war. It was renamedMemorial Day and remains a uniquely American tradition—one that is rightfully observed with red, white, and blue pride.

So yes, go to the parade. Fly the flag. Visit a cemetery. Take a moment of silence. Maybe even turn it into a family activity—ask questions, share stories, explore American history together. How many wars have we been part of? Why were they fought? Who served, and what did they give?

Use part of your day off not just to relax, but to reflect. Memorial Day is a time to remember and honor the men and women who gave their lives in military service to this country. Let’s not forget the true cost of our freedom—and those who paid the price for it.