There can be so much to think about! But, let's be honest here, taking control of the important things in life just feels good; you know it's the right thing to do for you and your family and their Peace of Mind.
Laying the foundation of a well-thought out plan for you or a loved one takes a bit of time, but, it's worth every moment spent. After all, you’re setting the stage for a more relaxed and enjoyable life.
- Prepare a contact list of individuals who should be notified in case of a medical emergency or death.
- Write an obituary or jot down information you would like included in an obituary (a list of membership(s), recognition(s) or honors received can be helpful).
- Decide where obituary and memorial information should appear.
- Choose the type of service you would like, including the Final Disposition (burial, etc.) you prefer, and make those arrangements. You will need to decide:
- Cemetery lot or crypt location
- Casket type; cremation urn type
- Vault or mausoleum crypt/niche
- Type of service: religious, military, non-denominational, and/or fraternal
- Which funeral home to use
- Pallbearers, music, flowers, scripture or other readings
- Personalization Options: represent your hobbies, skills, clubs or organizations you were involved with; anything you want done or performed at your service.
- Charity to receive donations in addition to or in lieu of flowers
- Select the speakers and the eulogies that you would want to represent you.
- Decide what organizations or church will benefit from memorial donations in your name.
Arrange and Delegate
The people who know and care about you will be there when you need them. You only need to provide them with instructions, important financial details, and then relax. You’re in good hands.
- Designate a power of attorney to ensure that proper information can be accessed in the event of your illness or death. Make sure a durable power of attorney for health care and a living will are in place so that your wishes are carried out if you are unable to do so.
- Give your Executor a copy of your Will. Safety deposit boxes are often opened up during the Estate Settlement process, after the funeral.
- Make sure your representative has a list of important account information and/or telephone numbers for:
- retirement plans,
- insurance policies,
- brokerage or investment accounts,
- bank accounts,
- safe-deposit boxes,
- preferred law and accountant firms and
- the funeral home/mortuary you trust to handle your Arrangements
- Make arrangements to cancel
- telephone and utilities services and
- newspaper and magazine subscriptions
- Pay for:
- Cemetery and memorialization services and merchandise
- Funeral arrangements, including clergy, florist and transportation
- Make arrangements for pets to find a new home.
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