Viewing and the
Body
For decades, the pundits,
practitioners and administrators of death /life-care profession
have espoused the cathartic value of the physical presence of the
deceased throughout all facets and elements of the funeral, i.e.,
visitation, ceremony and disposition. Today, Grief Therapists
and other professionals understand that indeed, "seeing is
believing" and is beneficial to one's journey through
grief.
Life is indeed precious, and when a life has ended,
response and recognition begin. Recognition
becomes realized when people gather in love and support
and for many brief, shining moments, the life now muted
is remembered and honored through the rites, rituals and
human interaction provided by the funeral event.
Above and beyond the psychological and emotional value of viewing
the deceased and quietly verifying the reality of death, there
exists an intrinsic, universal imperative to honor and validate the
life and times of the deceased with "the body present" throughout
the entirety of the memorialization process.
The chronicles of global deaths caused by war, terrorism, disease,
accidents and natural catastrophic events are replete with
references to the sanctity of the body and prodigious effort,
capital, care and commitment expended to honor, protect and
preserve the bodies of the deceased persons.
Data extrapolated from archeological study has demonstrated that
throughout the epochal dynamics of humankind, cultures, nations,
societies, tribes and clans have intrinsically revered and
relentlessly guarded the human remains of the dead, regardless of
social, political or economic strata.
The common denominator of world cultures is the unbridled passion
to recover the "fallen warrior" and dignify the death by bringing
home the body.
As the world of the 21st century turns in turmoil, the tradition of
honoring life with the body present seems to be more prevalent now
than ever before. Reflective of the principle is the support of
legions of institutions and organizations like MIA, Ground-Sea and
Air Rescue, Graves Registration, state and national funeral
director associations, schools and programs of mortuary science and
police and firefighting entities.
Above all, this practice of having the body present speaks
of the quintessential decency and compassions of "the people". And
that is as it should be...